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 Being able to do anything, or quitting, is freedom. ​ Get your hands off the hanging cliff. Enlightened people say I had to get my hands off the hanging cliff. I can't believe it's a story from Buddhism, which emphasizes mercy and love. Doubts can be easily dispelled. A 'hanging cliff' is actually just an object of obsession, believing that it will die if it is released even though there is no problem. The 'hanging cliff' is different for each person. It could be youth, health, family, money, home, or children. Or it could be love, it could be friendship, it could be the approval of others.   It is clear that the person who cannot lift his hand from the cliff is not free, he is not the master of his own life. Whatever it is, if it is impossible to live without it, and if it is likely that he will die, he is already a slave to the cliff on which he hangs. If you let go, you will die, but why should you let go? For the freedom to pursue new possibilities in life....

 The earth is round. Forward forward to meet. If we think of the Earth as a square, there is no way out of the relationship we have created, good or bad. On the other hand, if we think of the Earth as round, we can paddle with all our might to places we have never been before. ​ It doesn't matter if it's home, school or work. The same goes for any relationship. If you leave home, leave school, quit your job, cut off relationships with your acquaintances, and if you feel that you will not be able to live or die, you are believing that you live in a square earth surrounded by cliffs. Naturally, the good and evil that a relationship between home, school, and work imposes becomes something that must be followed absolutely. To that extent, the 'good' and 'bad' that I feel and only feel are gradually reduced to worthless. How is it possible to live a life where I follow my likes and dislikes? ​ We are happy when we are doing what we like or when we are not doing what ...

 Contribution, not influence. ​ Influence is determined by what you can give, not what you can get. If you have a lot of talent, you can donate your talent, and if you have an open mind, you can convey your heart. At this point, you will have an influence. This is contribution. Rich people share money, If there is youth, share it, If you have an idea, share it If you have information, you can give information. ​ what you have!! It is not a strength in itself. write it first for yourself, write for the one you love, It is gradually expanded and written for people in good relationships, Furthermore, when you give it to those who need it, it becomes power. When we have our own differentiated contribution to participate and help, rather than a combat weapon that presupposes fighting with others based on our strengths and competitiveness, we can work together and create new things that we can enjoy and cannot do alone. can ​ The most important thing in a way to increase contribution is ...

 Life is in danger. Nietzsche. Any life must be in danger for it to be complete. For Nietzsche, the danger comes in three ways. ​ One is loneliness. He must be lonely to find out who he is. Those who are not alone cannot approach themselves. ​ Another danger is the despair of the truth. The truth is inconvenient. he says ​ "If you want peace of mind and happiness, believe. If you want to be an apostle of truth, seek." ​ Pursuing the truth is difficult and difficult. Because it can be extremely disgusting and obscene. People close their eyes in front of uncomfortable truths and try to believe what they want to believe. Belief is comfortable, but truth is uncomfortable. Despair before the truth. The path of learning is to pursue that discomfort and despair. ​ ​ The final danger is the yearning to go beyond one's own limits. he asks ​ What did you truly love? What has fascinated your soul? What controlled and delighted the soul? Young soul, look back on your life with this q...

 The irony of football that the control of failure is the cause of success resembles life. ​ We fear failure. That's why they play boring football in the arena of life. Without a flashy dribble, a great pass, or a powerful shot, he just waits for the ball and doesn't want to release it when it arrives. It may seem like he just wants to sit on the grass holding the soccer ball of success in his chest. ​ Our lives must be full of failures to score goals. Numerous attempts, it is an attempt for a goal, not a failure. ​ "How many times have I failed?" instead "How many attempts have I made?" I ask. ​ It is the power of perception and language. The recognition that failure is an attempt is the starting point of failure management. ​ ​ ​ Incorporate these two value principles into your daily routine and be willing to fail. No, let's try. ​ First, try one more time than fail. If I could have a dream but not be a slave to it, It's just one more try when you ...

 Two hours a day to protect me. There are three main ways to find meaning in life and feel satisfaction. One is to love what you are doing. If you can't love, the second way is to quit what you're doing and find a job you love. If you can't, it's about changing your attitude towards what you're doing. This is the third way. Victor Frankl, author of In The Death Camp, is a Jew who survived the Nazi death camp. As a helpless individual, he could not change the fact that had already happened: 'a prisoner in a concentration camp'. Despair arises when there is nothing more to be done. When circumstances cannot be changed, we despair. But he discovered that there was one more thing he could change. If you can't change the situation, change my perspective on how I interpret it. He began to find meaning in suffering. He knew that by reinterpreting hardships, he could recreate dreams about his future. He did not believe that there was a meaning in life that was c...

 Outside reality, take the point that it is a dream and change it. Change is the ability to recognize urgency. If you can convince yourself of urgency, half of the change is successful. But a person who is not desperate cannot succeed in changing himself. This is one of the most difficult parts of change. people are complaining I understand and agree that it has to change, but in reality it is difficult to change. ask them Are you desperate? Being desperate means recognizing it as a matter of survival. Now is the time of decision, and it is a self-suggestion and magic that if you don't start now, you will miss the last chance. Tell them not to be friends with people who quit smoking. Because it's such a difficult task, people who quit smoking are called 'poisonous people'. This is the case under normal circumstances. If a person continues to smoke even though the doctor tells a person with cancer that he can live only by quitting smoking and starting treatment, this per...