Contributing power is aimed at the depth of the relationship.

 Contribution, not influence.

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Influence is determined by what you can give, not what you can get.


If you have a lot of talent, you can donate your talent, and if you have an open mind, you can convey your heart.


At this point, you will have an influence.


This is contribution.



Rich people share money,


If there is youth, share it,


If you have an idea, share it


If you have information, you can give information.


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what you have!!


It is not a strength in itself.



write it first for yourself,


write for the one you love,


It is gradually expanded and written for people in good relationships,


Furthermore, when you give it to those who need it, it becomes power.



When we have our own differentiated contribution to participate and help, rather than a combat weapon that presupposes fighting with others based on our strengths and competitiveness, we can work together and create new things that we can enjoy and cannot do alone. can


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The most important thing in a way to increase contribution is to change the way you see the world.


Longing for power that can be shared, not power that can be taken away, should come first.


I have to fight against the forces that seek to conquer me, but I am friendly against the forces that seek to help me.


First, think about what you can contribute when you build a relationship with someone.



Besides the willingness to share, the factor that can strengthen contribution is the quality of the gift.


If the gift you bring is special and wonderful, your contribution will increase.


Let's not get caught up in the word 'contribution' rather than sharing.


There are many ways to contribute, but the 'best contribution' is to contribute with the talents you are best at.


The contribution of my talents, such as being a good listener and grilling meat, is a real contribution.

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Another way to strengthen the ability to contribute is to pursue the depth of the relationship in the process of contributing.


The trembling of being alive comes from the joy that comes from work, but it also comes from who and how you lived.


Just as wonderful love is everyone's dream, and friendship is mankind's pride, people experience the deep taste of life through relationships.


Contributing power is aimed at the depth of the relationship.



Use my talents, temperament, and skills for good relationships.


Don't let my co-workers offend, frighten, or make my appearance uncomfortable.


Let my appearance be the joy of people.


Let my existence there be the greatest gift.



Rather than becoming a fighter with unique competitiveness in the world,


Let's become a person who has the ability to contribute to sharing one talent in the world.

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