Two transitions are required to prevent self-destruction.

 Two transitions are required to prevent self-destruction.


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The first is the problem of desire. Taking care of yourself is a matter of how you control your desires.


We often identify ourselves with our desires.


Because I think 'Happiness is doing what I want to do',


What I want to do is soon to be me,


I think doing what I want to do and living is the way to be considerate of myself.


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The wise people called the life of a slave, a life of frantically sprinting to achieve what they wanted to do.


This is because life is driven by 'what you want to do'.


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The ancient sages tell us to become masters of our desires.


The way to become the master of desire is not to do what you want to do at any time, but, conversely, to be able to stop doing it at any time. The power of the owner is not 'power to achieve', but 'power to quit'


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The second is a shift in perspective on excellence.


Excellence is not judged by one's own limitations, but by the degree to which one handles one's limitations, that is, the art of dealing with them.


It is pointless to compare my talents with others.


Even if they are not the best, each talent is given as a 'gift'. Therefore, the important thing is not to compare how abundant the gifts you have received, but how well each of you is using the gift you received.


In this case, the standard of excellence is not the given itself, but how well it is being used and the degree of its good use. This is the excellence that human beings should seek.

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