Grit. Four psychological assets of a mature grit.

Grit. Four psychological assets of a mature grit.


Bored


not worth the effort


this is not important to me


I can't but I'd rather give up


It is said to be the reason people give up when doing something.


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What could be worse than 'giving up on yourself'?



The anger for which you do not know why it rises slowly subsides as soon as you read the next article.


She would eventually try to tell this story to her.



Grit's archetypes end more stubbornly the higher the goal is.


Grit's archetypes do not change the compass.


They do not even talk about the reasons for giving up on the single important goal that guides all their actions.


<Four psychological assets common to the archetypes of mature grit>


1. Interest


Passion begins with genuine enjoyment of work.


They exclaim with their whole body, who are attracted to work and show childlike curiosity.


"I love my job!"


2. Practice


The kind of persistence that you train every day to do better than yesterday.


For hours, weeks, months, or years a day, focus on rehearsing your weaknesses.


Grit refuses to settle for the present.


Grit lives with the following words of his mouth.


"No matter what happens, it will be better than it is now!"


3. Purpose


The conviction that your work matters is what fuels your passion.


It is almost impossible to sustain a lifelong interest in purposeless interests. Therefore, one must look for work that is personally interesting and closely related to the well-being of others.


“My work is important to me and to others.”


4. Hope


Perseverance to deal with crisis.


Hope appears at every level.


Bob Mankoff, who became a cartoonist after being rejected 2000 times from The New Yorker, comes to mind.


He must have become who he is today because he had four strong psychological assets.


It should be a week to arm the spirit of grit with hope.


"I love my job!"


"No matter what happens, it will be better than it is now!"


“My work is important to me and to others.”

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