A life without regrets comes from a mature gaze.

 A life without regrets comes from a mature gaze.


Life is only once and time cannot be turned back.


If you keep looking back on the past...


If you are engrossed in the thought of going back to the past, it means you are regretting your life.


everyone regrets


Everyone lives with certain events in their lives that are regrettable, shameful, or apologetic.


Without envy, even those who seem happy live hugging her empty breasts, unknown to anyone.


Man is an imperfect being, and life is a series of contradictions and ironies.


Only after having regretted a lot can you live a life without regrets.

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There are three stages to regret.

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First, do something.


Second, you don't like the outcome of the action.


Third, blame yourself.



If you stop at the second step, you don't regret it yet.


It's okay if you make up your mind to 'forget' and overcome it.


But if you repeat yourself and blame yourself, you will fall into regret.


If you cling to something that can't be achieved, that's regret.


Regret stems from an attachment to the irreversible.


We constantly miss 'there' rather than 'here'.


I look back on the path I did not reach and did not settle on the path I walked on.


He is constantly skeptical about his choices and shakes his head saying he is not satisfied.


Regret is ultimately a rejection of oneself.



Regret is accompanied by remorse and self-blame.

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If there are already things I can't do, I'll have to choose a lesson instead of regret.


Lessons must be learned from the past.


If we forget the past but do not reflect on our past mistakes and live a repetitive life without learning from our failures, the end can lead to ruin.


We must learn lessons for the future and forget the past that cannot be returned.


After that, you have to look to the future to become the protagonist of your life.


A life without regrets comes from a mature gaze.


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Under what circumstances would you do it again without regret, or would you not do it because you would regret it?


It means that even if a situation repeats itself forever, if you do it again, you will have no regrets.


Even if I live my life again, making the same choice is an active will to enjoy the present life in the dimension of not regretting it.

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