The upper bound of self-transformation, the relationship.

 The upper bound of self-transformation, the relationship.


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Develop a sense of respect and acceptance of the opinions of others.


A person's thoughts are the historical conclusions of his or her life.


Just as history can't be rewritten, you can't get involved in a person's thoughts.


On the other hand, there is no guarantee that my own opinion is also correct.


It's just one of many lives.




change. The journey from head to chest.


This journey is a process of self-transformation.


Tolerance.


Tolerance is the pride of France and the morality of Chigo reached by modern society.


But the heart is not the final destination.


Another long, long journey, one must be able to travel from the chest to the feet.


If the heart is empathy and affection, the feet are change.


It is to create a place of life.



Tolerance that respects differences and appreciates diversity.


It is said to be the highest level of modern society.


But differences and diversity should not end with respect for them.


It should be a new beginning.


Differences should be another starting point that leads to self-transformation.


Differences should not be subject to coexistence, but should be an object of appreciation, a textbook for learning, and a beginning of change.


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Self-transformation is not a change in the individual unit of the self.


Personal change is just one of many.


Self-change is finally completed as a human custom.


Change is not complete by acquiring skills and changing language and thinking. It is completed as human trust.


In the end, the change is completed by changing the human relationship that one is forming.


If the change as an individual is called the 'heart', then what is completed as a human relationship can be called the 'foot'.


The human relationship you are forming is the upper limit of the quality and height of your change.

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