Humans become adults when they look back.

 Humans become adults when they look back.

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'The gentleman saves him from himself, and the small man saves him from others.'



When a problem arises, a gentleman takes responsibility or a solution to himself, but a small man blames others.


The problem may have originated with me, or it may have come from outside. However, those who try to analyze the problem and conclude that it is blaming others beyond the cause of the problem cannot solve the problem. Because if I blame others, others will also blame me. In the end, the problem becomes more complicated as we keep putting aside the immediate problem and repeating exhausting fights that attribute the causes to each other.




"If you love others but are not friendly, look at your kindness. When you are in control of others, when you are not being governed, look at your wisdom. If you treat others with courtesy and do not respond, look at your own respectful attitude. If there is something you can't do, turn to yourself and see the cause. If I am right, the world will return to me."


In this way, those who can accurately diagnose and fix their problems can grow day by day.


The same goes for ordinary people. Even though he may not be able to do a big job enough to win the world. However, wherever he is, he faithfully fulfils his role and can become a small everyday hero who is trusted by everyone.


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'God's move' did not come from a flash of inspiration, but from the recovery of a human being who had endlessly regretted it.

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