The beginning of interdependence, character.

 The beginning of interdependence, character.

The most important factor when forming human relationships is who we are rather than what we say or how we act. If our words and actions come from superficial human relations techniques rather than from deep inside, the other person will soon sense our duality.

Skills or skills that are really important in interpersonal relationships should come naturally as an independent character. The starting point for building relationships with others is within ourselves, within our circle of influence, and within our own inner character. It is only when we become independent, that is, when we are proactive, centred on good principles, value-oriented, and plan and faithfully execute the things that are precious in our lives, that we can make our relationships with others rich, lasting, and productive. Only then do they qualify to be interdependent.

In an interdependent situation, golden eggs (production) are effective and wonderful synergies, good outcomes achieved through open communication and positive interpersonal relationships. However, we must take care of the geese (production capacity) in order to get regular golden eggs in our daily life. In other words, in order to achieve such a result, one must build human relationships and strive to take care of them.

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In an interdependent situation, any problem with the production is a good opportunity for capacity. Here, opportunity means the opportunity to establish an emotional bank account that has a significant impact on interdependent production.

The application of this paradigm, such as parents and children, companies and customers, turns difficult and difficult work into opportunities to build love and trust.

By recognizing that production/capacity balance is necessary for effectiveness in an interdependent reality, we can turn several problems into opportunities to increase capacity.