someone else's mirror,

someone else's mirror,

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'If you treat the other person the way they are, they will stay the way they are. If you acknowledge the potential of the other person, he will achieve what he has been recognized for.' - Goethe


Most people are influenced by the social mirror, a script that is engraved by the views, perceptions, and paradigms of those around them. We live in a paradigm that emphasizes the fact that we, in interdependent relationships, must live according to the social mirror.


We can reflect on others clearly and undistorted as we make up our minds. It can also convince others of their leading nature and treat them as responsible people.


We can help others screenplay themselves as principle-driven, value-based, independent, and worthy individuals, and giving positive comments to others with a spirit of abundance doesn't discourage us in the slightest. I know you won't do it. Doing so increases our chances of effectively interacting with other leading people, so we can develop ourselves.

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In life, there have been times when you don't believe in yourself, but others believe in you. It's like someone else wrote the screenplay for me. Think about how much of an impact these experiences have had on your life.


What effect would it have had if we had been positive screenwriters or supporters of others?


If other people are on the wrong path because of social mirrors, we can trust their humanity and encourage them to follow a better life path. We can listen and empathize with them. Furthermore, it can encourage them to take the initiative without depriving them of responsibility.

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