Self-esteem recovery tool, writing.

 Self-esteem recovery tool, writing.

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Listening, speaking, reading and writing.


It is the basic ability that makes up our language life.


Just as life is inconvenient if the ability to listen, speak, and read is lacking, so if the ability to write is also lacking, life will become very uncomfortable and small. This is because even if one is lacking, communication problems, that is, social life, arise. The quality of our lives can be improved only when the ability to think and express is abundant.


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Writing is, in a word, thinking.


You can speak without thinking, but you cannot write without thinking.


Even in ambiguous words, if the atmosphere, gestures, facial expressions, etc. are added, we can easily make the other person understand. However, if you want to convey your thoughts through writing, the writing must be clear and clear. Therefore, the clear way to confirm my thoughts is to write rather than speak.


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There are various reasons why writing became uncomfortable in society and education, but maybe the biggest reason is lack of self-esteem?


Self-esteem is often expressed as an attitude of respect for oneself.


If you just keep the simple proposition 'I am precious' in your head like a theory, your self-esteem cannot be restored. Self-esteem goes beyond the simple 'precious me' and can only reach complete self-esteem only when there is a heart to acknowledge and value everything that I have, including thoughts, feelings, and experiences.


If you say you have high self-esteem but are hesitant to express your thoughts, experiences, and feelings, it might be a good opportunity to look into your self-esteem again.


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The ability to look at the existence of a nation with wonder, and to mysteriously look at the stark fact that I am alive.


Giving meaning to my life and what I do is the starting point for self-esteem that honours me.


The moment I reach the realization that I am by no means insignificant and that I am full of precious things, my self-esteem turns into self-confidence. You need to restore your self-esteem to gain confidence.


When I open my sensibility wide on my self-esteem and confidence, I see myself anew. When the renewed me accepts the world anew, the world enters into me, and the renewed me can move forward into the open world.


If we share the awareness that everyone is connected in this way, the domination, coercion, and disregard that prevailed in the society, me and you, will fade away and our dignity as a being can be restored.


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Writing is the process of making life into one's own story by writing about one's experiences, feelings, thoughts, dreams and hopes.


Through the repeated 'writing for me', I was able to recover my self-esteem and move forward on the path of healing.


I hope it will be a time when you can meet the dignity of yourself and others through writing, a tool for restoring self-esteem...

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