Allow yourself to feel my emotions.

 Allow yourself to feel my emotions.



Although everyone wants to live with empathy and empathy, there are many people who view emotions as expressions of immaturity and objects of control.


I think that you have to be good at controlling your emotions to be an adult, and that's how you become a mature person. We believe that emotions can be controlled by reason. This is the most misunderstood and dangerous myth about the mind.


Sometimes we identify with our social roles and try to control our thoughts and other minds too much. When I try to control my contradiction with reason, the energy consumption due to emotions is greater than I thought.


Social and occupational responsibilities vary according to circumstances and circumstances in a person's life, such as clothes that need to be changed according to time and place.


Unclear role recognition creates, rather than conflict itself, the emotional residues that arise in the process, and lives at a cost that is too high in everyday life because it cannot digest it.


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For any person, the emotions that fit his role are not his body, but his clothes. It should depend on the circumstances and circumstances.


Nevertheless, people believe that there are good emotions and bad emotions. They accept good emotions but try to eliminate or suppress what they believe are bad emotions.


Just as good emotions are not always good, negative emotions are not always negative. It can be known only by re-examining each individual situation.


Emotions are not subject to a binary judgment of good and bad, right and wrong. Emotions are the very meter by which you can face your state of being.


Allow yourself to feel your emotions.

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