Someone else's final boss.

 Someone else's final boss.


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If it's something else that I can't do my own way, then there are the 'Three Great Demon Kings'.


The first is the person he loves, the second is the person he teaches, and the third is the child, a combination of the two. When I meet them, I realize that it is my heart, but it is not my will.


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The reason these three beings are someone else's '3rd Great Demon King' is because I can't throw them away just because my heart says no.


When things don't go my way, the only thing I can do is turn around. It is impossible to 'discard', the final card that is tied in a relationship of love or that students and children can do as they please. Only then will you fully realize it. that there is nothing that I can do on my own.



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The moment I discover that my mind is not on my own terms and that I am not able to properly control my mind, my mind separates from me and becomes a different person. At this moment, he meets the final boss of someone else. It is the moment when I meet myself as an outsider, who is not my own.


My heart is the 'king of the end' of the batter who doesn't do what I want. It is only after I hit the limits of the art that governs myself that I realize that I do not know how to control my mind. When I focus on myself, I can turn this problem into an art of dealing, that is, my learning rather than my children.



When faced with a problem, can I turn it into a problem of my own learning?


You can only learn if you can change like this.


When I call a talent problem into a skill problem and someone else's problem into my art problem, I know what I need to learn. You can't learn anything and you can't solve anything unless you turn a problem into a problem of learning.


This is the focus of self-care. Learning to transform depends on being able to transform problems into learning.


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In order to reconcile with oneself, not with another person, the most necessary thing is to meet oneself.


The most important attitude to have in order to meet yourself is to get out of the illusion of knowing and live in the mind of not knowing.


You want to meet with yourself and you are awake to capture that encounter. Only those who are always awake and focused on themselves can capture the moment. Therefore, the most important thing to take care of yourself is to focus on yourself, not on others. That way you can take care of yourself.

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