刮目相對

“刮目相對, every scholar has to rub his eyes and see again after three days pass when dealing with people.”


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A person who walks the path with a willful will can make amazing progress in just three days. A friend is someone who can quickly notice such a development. In this way, a friendship should be a relationship where they can not only recognize each other's growth but also offer criticism and advice generously. A 'Friend' is a gift that can only be found by those who walk their own path and know how to 'experience crane learning'.


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Zigong said, "What is a friend?"


"A friend is a friend who gives sincere advice and leads you on the right path. However, if you do not listen to advice even after giving it a couple of times, you will end the relationship. If you are a friend, you may be insulted by your friend if you are too fussy about it." - 23 episodes of Anyone


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They say that being friends is not just a personal relationship where you can relate to each other.


To Confucius, friendship, friendship, is not a feeling that exists between people, but rather a cold thought that comes from walking the 'conscious road'.


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The friendships learned through Confucius can only arise from 'meetings between mature beings', that is, between people who are consciously 'conscious' and walk their own path.


Wouldn't it be great if a friend like this came from far away?


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Wouldn't it be great if you could be with a friend like this, who is a 'happy' being who walks the same path as me?

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