Outside reality, take the point that it is a dream and change it.

 Outside reality, take the point that it is a dream and change it.


Change is the ability to recognize the urgency.


If you can convince yourself of urgency, half of the change is successful. But a person who is not desperate cannot succeed in changing himself. This is one of the most difficult parts of change.


people are complaining


I understand and agree that it has to change, but in reality it is difficult to change.


ask them Are you desperate?


Being desperate means recognizing it as a matter of survival. Now is the time of decision, and if you don't start now, you will miss out on your last chance.


Tell them not to be friends with people who quit smoking. It is said that a person who quits smoking is described as a 'poisonous guy' because it is such a difficult task. This is the case in a general fixed interest situation.


If a person continues to smoke even though the doctor tells a person with cancer that he can live only by quitting smoking and starting treatment, this person becomes a 'poisonous guy' this time.



Change begins when we recognize it as a matter of survival.


Desperation is self-imposed. This spontaneity comes from understanding what change is.


Change is movement. moving from one point to another. So change requires at least two points at a time. You should be able to take two coordinates indicating where you are standing and the destination you will reach. There is a gap between the two coordinates. This interval is the width of the change.



There is always time intervening between the two points physically. The difference between the two points puts pressure on us. Because in order to move, you have to leave where you are now. The time it takes to get to the destination you need to reach determines the exact time you need to leave. If you don't leave at the time you should leave, you won't be able to reach your destination at the time you want.


Just as the seasons do not wait for us, so does life wait for those who arrive late.


A person who only realizes that summer has already passed in the autumn has no choice but to accept that the sunlight and heat to fill him, who are still nothing more than chaff, are gone. He has no autumn. There is no life to reap



Desperation arises in a taxi that has been picked up in a hurry to arrive on time for the promised time, and stays in the hasty footsteps.


Desperation comes when there is still hope. Paradoxically, that is the powerful energy that makes hope come true.


Focus all your attention and abilities. put everything on it



The two points that symbolically define change are 'reality' and 'dream'.


The reason dreams do not come true is because there are no dreams. Dreamers may fail many times to make their dreams come true, but that's just a process leading to success. One day they will make their dreams come true.



Desperation only comes to those who have dreams. It arises when moving towards a dream in the gap between reality and dream. People who have nothing but reality are not desperate.


In order to succeed in such change, 'another point' is always needed.


'Another point' taken by myself and voluntarily.


Outside reality, take the point that it is a dream and change it.

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