extremes of love.

 extremes of love.


It is said that if you love, you should be able to feel the pain of the other person.


A person who feels the other person's pain and heaviness to the point where they can't even say 'Fighting' may be more painful and heavier than the person concerned. Only then will the miracle of love be born.


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I should not fall into the arrogance of helping someone and making someone happy.


To live is to be a nuisance to other beings in some way.


The best thing I can do for someone else is at least make it less difficult for them because of me.


Just because it exists, it can only aggravate someone's pain, but nevertheless, it is necessary to try to minimize the pain.


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Sometimes there is no way to relieve the pain of a loved one.


If you are helpless in the face of the pain of a loved one, there can be no more difficult situation.


Even though it is impossible to alleviate the pain of the person you love, it is not difficult to take it with your whole body without turning your head away from the pain, diluting it with words, and with your whole body.


Perhaps this is the limit of 'compassion' or 'love'.

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