Personality is destiny.

 Personality is destiny.


Humans have believed in fate for thousands of years. When he was born, his life was already decided.


People these days look at it from a different perspective. You think you are largely in control of what happens to you. I think you make your own destiny. But they always live the same way. Even if you try to change, you will find yourself living in the same way.


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When people encounter problems, they tend to react the same way and make the same decisions. There are certain patterns in life, especially those that stand out from mistakes or failures. This is character.


Personality, which has an etymology in ancient Greece, means a tool for engraving or stamping something.


Personality is something deeply ingrained or imprinted in a person that makes him behave in a particular way.


Genetic or childhood personalities are so deeply ingrained that, unless you put a lot of effort into self-reflection, you are not consciously aware of the existence of these personalities and the behaviours they produce. The experiences and habits that are created by adding life to this are added to create the character.


Humans make certain decisions and these are neurologically imprinted in our brains. People have no choice but to repeat the pattern. Because the road has already been cleared. It becomes a habit, and a character is made of thousands of such habits.


If you want to change your personality that has been built so well, you have to start by understanding your personality well. In particular, it is necessary to carefully examine negative patterns that continue to recur.


It is impossible to get rid of the imprints that make up your personality, but you can turn negative or weak aspects into strengths.


Facing your own limitations and strengths will free you from the captivity of your personality.


When you know yourself properly, you can step back from the pattern you always fall into, and you can mitigate the influence of the pattern.


Through repeated practice and effort, you can create a new habit or pattern, and actively create a personality and destiny that suits it. Then you will realize your true potential and want to be who you are, rather than aspire to be someone else.


Instead of running away from your weaknesses by turning your weaknesses into strengths, you will see them as your true source of strength.


Character is destiny.


Let's face our personality, break the recurring patterns and forge our own destiny.

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